Aloizy Kuchta

…and with a name like “Kootka”, it sounded like an Indian name and I figured he was part Tlingit!  Instead I found out from reading the Juneau Empire’s obituary his name is Aloizy Kuchta and he’s originally from Poland.  (Huh, oh?  That explains his Eastern European accent; gawd, what do I know?)

Al and I hadn’t seen one another in years, however we ran into each other during Celebration weekend back in June in front of Goldbelt’s hotel.  We hugged, shook hands, laughed and wondered where the other was all this time!  I even took a photo of us on my little digital camera (and I looked all over for that photo in my iPhoto files and could not find it –  I am sad I do not have that photo).

After reading his obituary, I realized  this  man has known me all my life!  No wonder (like many of us) he was always so kind.  He watched me grow up:  holding my parents’  hands, walking to school,  running around in the woods, on the docks, on my bike, building bonfires out Thane Road, rowing “borrowed” skiffs,  holding hands with a boyfriend, then being married, raising children, doing my landscaping business, etc. etc.  Just think about all the people he watched grow up in this town.

My father and Al were friends; they had similar interests in fishing and hunting.   Al was like a distant uncle not so distant.  He always wore twinkling eyes, even when I last saw him back in June.   Although he was obviously (finally) getting old, I could still feel in him the robust strength and love of life..  He walked just a little slower, he nodded his head a bit gentler, yet he still had that uplifting hug!

Al was one of Juneau’s old-timers.  We “big city” kids grew up with familiar downtown Juneau faces – so many of them are gone now.  With the familiarity of these folks, there was a sense of security.   Many old timers watched out for us.   When I see old people still walking around, even as slow as they might be, they are a treasure; it’s like having beautiful flowers on the table and quoting my friend Brien:  “…reminding us how short life is…”

As our parents’  generation is moving on, the “Baby-boomer” generation is moving into the position of being “old-timers.”

There will be a service at the Catholic Church this Saturday, December 11th at 9:30am.  You may read more about Al Kuchta in the Juneau Empire at:  http://www.juneauempire.com/stories/120510/obi_746080692.shtml